If August had a soundtrack, it would be an unapologetic mash-up of sprinkles hitting the cone, the jangle of oversized earrings, and the quiet hum of a woman realising her bare face is, shockingly, just fine. Basically, it’s been a month of little rebellions and simple joys, so let’s talk about it – in full chatty overshare mode, obviously.
July was hot, chaotic, and deeply uncooperative — but I still got dressed. Loose dresses, linen trousers, wild frizzy hair, and two unimpressed cats feature heavily in this month’s style diary. No filters, no faff, just honest outfits that helped me survive the heat and occasionally leave the house.
After 40, summer dressing becomes less about trends and more about self-talk. This is a real, honest look at body image, swimsuits, and wearing the damn shorts — even when the inner critic kicks in. Because comfort, joy, and presence matter more than anyone else’s opinion. Especially our own.
At 40+, I declutter my wardrobe every season, and yet somehow, it’s still full of clothes and past lives. From delusional jeans to margarita-stained dresses, here’s what I ditched, what I kept, and why clearing out my wardrobe turned into a hilarious, emotional reckoning with who I really am.
June brought walks in the green, ice lollies for every mood, and that hopeful, slightly sweaty feeling that summer’s finally here. I dodged beauty trends (mostly), got stuck in a deckchair (again), and tried to grow herbs (unsuccessfully). It’s hot, it’s chaotic, it’s real life — and I kind of love it.
June was all light layers, linen dreams, and sandals that betrayed me. I wore what worked - and what didn’t - with a dash of chaos and a borrowed cardigan. From wind-blown skirts to blistered toes, it was lived-in, slightly creased, and mostly comfortable. Real clothes for a real month.
This post encourages women over 40 to embrace colour in their wardrobes, moving beyond neutrals. It offers practical advice: start small, understand personal colour preferences, use the 60/30/10 rule for balance, consider prints, and use makeup for colourful accents. Ultimately, it champions individuality and self-expression through colour.
Spring invites renewal, focusing on self-return rather than reinvention for those over 40. Confidence is redefined, emphasizing authenticity and self-acceptance. Small intentional changes can uplift energy, while decluttering mental space fosters self-respect. Building a supportive community enhances confidence. Embrace a fresh start—flourishing authentically is key.
The author reflects on their transition from wearing stylish heels to prioritizing comfort due to foot pain, particularly plantar fasciitis. They recount past shoe disasters and explore brands merging style with support. Ultimately, they've embraced comfortable footwear, accepting that comfort can coexist with fashion, while humorously wishing for stylish trainers.
Fashion is now ageless, especially for women over forty who confidently define their style. Embrace trends like animal prints and comfortable loungewear while prioritizing fit and personal flair. Experiment with styles but focus on what flatters and feels good, as confidence ultimately dictates true style. Wear what you love!
My life and style over 40 